Forgiving someone doesn’t mean what happened was OK.
I want to talk to you about Why forgiving someone is so important for your life, not so much theirs.
Forgiving others allows you to overcome feelings of anger, bitterness and hatred. Forgiveness can heal spiritual wounds that were inflicted upon you without your consent and bring the peace and love that only God can give.
Forgiving someone doesn’t mean what happened was OK, and it doesn’t mean that person should still be welcome in your life. Forgiveness just means that you've made peace with the pain, and you are ready to let it go. Forgiveness is not something we do for others - it's something we do for ourselves. Not forgiving someone is the equivalent of staying trapped in a jail cell of bitterness, serving time for someone else's crime. You have to make a choice to either dwell in the pain caused by others or you want to forgive and move on. When you forgive others you are really healing your own life so we can live better and in peace...peace with your past so you can heal your future and your own life
It is vital to not that once you have forgiven and made peace with your past that you don't dwell on the fact you had resentment for so long…. You did the best you could with where your where at the time. Talk to God to help you through, because honestly, HE is the only being that can bring you true peace with what has happened.
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