The journey of healing will take time.
The journey of healing will take time, it will take work and it will take determination on your part to have the desire to live the best life possible going forward. Nobody can make you want to end the drama and hurt, nobody can remove it from your life except you. This will at times get very hard, it will get emotional, it will bring up things you never wanted to deal with again.
Don't you wish that the hurt and the circumstances around that pain just left when the relationship ended? Unfortunately that isn't reality we have to make a commitment to process it and “let it go” If you don't embark on these steps then you will keep going around the same mountain, making the same mistakes over and over again. You will ultimately sabotage any efforts made to move away from your past.
However, dealing with those things is exactly what needs to happen so you can release the hurt, the pain, the betrayal and all the messiness that comes with it. Before we go any further I must ask;
Are you ready to put in the work? Because if you aren't then this isn't for you.
Are you ready to face whatever comes to the surface head on? If that scares you then good it should, but you can't get past anything by burying your head in the sand.
Are you ready to let all that mess go in order for you to have greatness? Because if you want to continue to live or even occupy any part of Victimville then you aren't ready.
You have to stop telling yourself that same old story. Close that book, hell, burn the book if you have to, but stop rereading it day in and day out. So are you ready to blow the popsicle stand of Victimville, whatever it takes?
If you are then let's get your bags packed and get the hell out of there. You must be willing to either take ALL your belongings or leave then ALL behind. You can not leave one thing there thinking oh I can always come back for that. No it is ALL or nothing in order to heal.
There are 3 things I want you to always remember:
You're the creator of your own happiness.
There isn’t any other YOU out there.
You can never fail ( just learning)
Starting today you are going to focus on the here and now. How can you make today count, how can you make your life great today? Write it out, how are you going to make today great. Journal it, say it, do it.
If you are ready to work with me to get you past the road blocks and away from your old popsicle stand click here for a FREE call