Time for a life upgrade!!
I want to say to you: it is time for you to rightfully take your space in the world. Now that you have forgiven yourself and those who have caused you pain in this life, now… now it is time for you to seek a life of quality over quantity and to be aware and selective about what you involve not only yourself but who you let into your life and heart.
Don’t be held back by what happened yesterday, the day before, the week before, the year before, or even decades ago. Life is short, so live in the present moment.We can not change our past, but we sure can learn from it. Look at it, examine it, extract the good and leave the bad. Going forward be true to who you are. Stop trying to please other people or to be someone else. It’s better to be an original version of yourself rather than be an exact duplicate of someone else. God made you to be one of a kind. Those things that rub people wrong will one day be the exact attributes that will make you stand out when God is wanting you to shine. I was always loud, straight forward and yes sometimes not so nice. Today, I use my voice to be a voice for those who have been silenced, I tell it like it is… no, abuse isn't right and wrong is wrong. I will fight for the underdog, I will say what needs to be said. If you don't particularly like it, that is on you.. Not on me.
Stop sleepwalking through life. We aren't here to just exist on this plant and take up space, we are here to Live consciously each day. Your life is something to be experienced, not coasted through. It is important that each day is thought out, that each moment is cherished and that we be conscious about who we let in, what we allow to exist and how we choose to live in this world.
One way to do this is to Be committed to your growth. Build on your strengths. Don’t rely on the feeling of familiarity but focus on what will enable you to grow. There is a saying “if we aren't growing, we are dying.” I don't know about you but I have alot of life left in this body and i am NOT ready sitting here on this rock waiting to die. I am dancing on this rock, living the best life I can live.
Set your life must haves.
Define your personal must to live your best life. What principles do you want to follow in your life?
Stop putting life on hold. Are you putting any parts of your life on hold? What is one area of your life you have been putting off, avoiding or denying? Uncover that and start working on it.
Create your life handbook. Your life handbook is your personal manual to live your best life, containing your mission statement, values, goals, personal strengths, blind spots, and action plans. Start off with a few basic pages, and then build on it.
Don’t do things for the sake of doing them. Always evaluate what you’re doing and only do it if there is meaning behind them. Don’t be afraid to quit the things that don’t serve your path.
Develop 100% self-belief. Believe in yourself and your abilities. Remove your limiting beliefs and replace them with empowering ones
Let go of relationships that do not serve you. That means negative people, dishonest people, people who don’t respect you, people who are overly critical, and relationships that prevent you from growing.
Spend more time with people who enable you. Hang out with people whom you compatible with: like-minded people and people who are positive, successful, and positive for your growth. You are after all the average of the 5 people you spend the most time with.
Write a letter to your future self. Envision how you’ll be like in the future, one year from now. Write as long as you like. Now, seal it and put it in a safe place. Set a calendar appointment one year from now, so you’ll know to open when it’s time.
Get mentors/coaches. There’s no faster way to improve than to have someone work with you on your goals. Not only will they drive you to achieve more, but they’ll also share important advice which you can use to create even more success for yourself.
Many of my clients come to me to help them upgrade their lives. They've had past traumas that they are now ready to deal with, they are now ready to put the past to bed and step boldly into the life they have always wanted to have. As a Certified Life Coach I can do that for you too.
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