Breaking the cycle is never easy, but it's so worth it! I'm here to help both women and men break the cycle of abuse. Together we will formulate a new plan for your life and I'll give you the step to achieve them. Along with the encouragement to do so. Be sure to 👍 like this video and SUBSCRIBE to my channel.

Having a vision is only one brick on the road to breaking away from abuse. I've titles this podcast "How do you eat an elephant?" Because like your dreams you have to take one bite at a time to eat the whole elephant. You may take 3 steps forward and 2 steps back, but remember, you're still 1 step farther then when you started. Be bold, be brave and be safe! Be sure to 👍 like this video and SUBSCRIBE to my channel.

Our lives are but a series of choices we have made or declined to make. One of the many gifts God gave to us is free well. In the book Life's Greatest Lessons,by Hal Urban he says..."God gave us free will. No one can take it away from us. We can alter the course of our lives anytime we want, because, whatever we do, we do it by choice." You must be intentional about your chooses in order to break your cycle of abuse and reach the life you deserve. 24 hour NATIONAL DOMESTIC VIOLENCE HOTLINE 1-800-799-7233 ILLINOIS DOMESTIC VIOLENCE HELP LINE 1-877-863-6339 ILLINOIS COALITION AGAINST DOMESTIC VIOLENCE www.ilcadv.org Be sure to 👍 like this video and SUBSCRIBE to my channel.

Domestic abuse, everyone knows about it but nobody wants to do anything about it. Does that sound familiar? As a victim of domestic abuse you live everyday in constant fear. Its like you are living on a the thin blade of a double edged sword. You want help, you want to leave and at the same time you are scared to tell some one. You are scared to leave. It has been beaten into you that if you even think about telling anyone then you'll be sorry. I give you real life tips and tricks of how to trust someone and how to tell someone about the abuse. You are NOT alone, and people WILL believe you! Please Like 👍, Share ➡, and Subscribe ❤ www.Facebook.com/speakoutgetoutstayout www.speakoutgetoutstayout.com #notalone #speakout #speakoutgetoutstayout #courage #youcandoit #domesticabuse #domesticviolence #domesticviolenceawareness@prilaga #fear #leave #escape #escapethefate #helpmeplease #stockholmsyndrome #terrorism #prilaga #helpme #helpmejesus🙏 #trustandbelieve #leavemealone #terror

Everyday around the world, children are missing school due to the domestic abuse that haunts their homes. Children living in domestic abuse experience lower IQ and test scores, experience emotional problems, have communication problems and have trouble concentrating on their work. Domestic violence effects everyone in the household, not just the victim and abuser. Be sure to 👍 like this video and SUBSCRIBE to my channel. www.speakoutgetoutstayout.com www.facebook.com/speakoutgetoutstayout #domesticabuse #domesticviolence #domesticabuseadvocate #childrenhurttoo #metoo #survivorsspeak #speakoutgetoutstayout@prilaga #domesticviolence #kidsfun #schoollife #domesticabuse #prilaga #siblings #school #endviolence #noviolence #stopviolenceagainstwomen #kids #siblingsnuggles #stopdomesticviolence #schooldays

Most people and families are celebrating the holidays with parties, family gatherings, presents and all the happiness that comes with it. For those who live in a domestic abusive household, it is just another day of fear and torment. The number of REPORTED cases of abuse decreases this time of year but the actual number of incidents do not. Domestic abuse is a tangled web of deception & abuse on a good day. Add in the stresses of the holidays and that web gets tighter. It is important to be a loving, support person for someone you suspect is living in abuse. You never know they may reach out to you after the holidays for help!! National Domestic Violence Hotline 1-799-7233 https://www.domesticshelters.org https://www.speakoutgetoutstayout.com www.Facebook.com/speakoutgetoutstayout Speakoutgetoutstayout@gmail.com Be sure to 👍 like this video and SUBSCRIBE to my channel. #domesticabuse #domesticviolence #nomore #DV. #domesticabuseprevention #speakoutgetoutstayout #invisibleillness #destiny #god #believe #stress #womensupportingwomen #religion #depression #knowledge #healthandwellness #faithful #prilaga #control #mentalhealth

FINANCIAL ABUSE; BACK TO BASICD Financial abuse involves controlling a victim’s ability to acquire, use and maintain financial resources. Financial abuse is a tactic abusers use to isolate you and to make it so you become financially dependent on them. Without resources many victims are unable to see a way out. Financial abuse is a leading cause to why victims of abuse do not and cannot leave an abusive relationship. In this video I will be going over ways your partner may be financially abusing you such as: Do they "borrow" money with the intent to NEVER pay you back? Do they take your paycheck like your money belongs to them? Minimize or criticize your choice of jobs? Do they pressure you to not work and even using your kids as the reason you should be staying home? Do they harrass you at work? Do they sabotage your mode of transportation or leave you holding the bag when it comes to who's going to watch the kids at the last minute? I will also give you tip as to how to see the red flags and be proactive NOT reactive. Resourses: www.annualcreditreport.com equifax: 1-877-576-5734; www.alerts.equifax.com Experian: 1-888-397-3742; www.experian.com/fraud TransUnion; 1-800-680-7289; www.transunion.com National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-7233 www.Speakoutgetoutstayout.com #creditcardfraudvictim #moneyandviolence #stopviolence #enddomesticviolence #security #stopdomesticviolence #domesticviolencesurvivor #financialabuse #creditcardfraud #domesticviolenceawareness #domesticabuse #domesticviolence #financialabuseisreal #stopthief

"There is a secret that lives in my house.....it lies in the shadows of forced smiles and 'I'm fines''.....it is emotional abuse. All forms of abuse are behaviors the abuser uses to control, coerce, and maintain the power over their victim through fear and intimidation. Victims of emotional abuse are groomed by their abuser to accept this abuse as being " normal." For more information as to if you are in an emotionally abusive relationship, click our FREE download "10 signs of an emotionally abusive relationship" http://bit.ly/2RtT7Wt www.speakoutgetoutstayout.com #emotionalabuseisreal #domesticabuse #domesticviolencesurvivor #enddomesticviolence #stopviolence #domesticviolenceawarenessmonth #domesticviolence #speakoutgetoutstayout #domesticviolenceawareness #nomore #ncadv #metoo #survivorspeaks #emotionalabuse #noviolence #emotionalabuseawareness #emotionalabuseisstillabuse #emotionalabuserecovery #prilaga

📍12% oh high school girls and 7% of high school boys reported physical violence from a dating partner. Nobody expects teens and young adults to know the ends and outs of dating. It is our jobs as parents to educate our kids on prevention before they become someone’s victim. Not everyone wants what is best for you, some want to control you. Step inside to learn to learn about: TEEN DATING VIOLENCE PREVENTION AND EDUCATION! Education is key to prevention!!🗝 IF YOU OR SOMEONE YOU KNOW IS EXPERIENCE TEEN DATING VIOLENCE YOU CAN CONTACT: WWW.SPEAKOUTGETOUTSTAYOUT.COM OR THE NATIONAL TEEN DATING VIOLENCE HOTLINE @ 800-799-7233 #lovedoesnothurt #selflove #speakoutgetoutstayout #puppylove #teenagerpost #teenagerfashion #teendatingviolenceawareness #knowtheirpast #gayteenager #teendatingviolence #highschoolfootball #trustyourintuition #teenager #followyourintuition #secretlifeoftheamericanteenager #teendatingviolenceawarenessmonth #prilaga #highschool #highschoolmusical #momofteenagers #highschoolsports #teenagers🙄